Guide Note

This page compiles links to resources which offer tips on meeting men both online and off. People commonly meet men for dating purposes through friends, shared activities, the workplace or online dating services.

Fast Facts

1. Types of dates:
   1. Regular date: One couple on a social outing
   2. Double dates: Two couples
   3. Group date: More than two couples
   4. Blind date: A date set up by a third party between two strangers
2. Dating services:
   1. Online dating
   2. Speed dating
   3. Virtual dating
   4. Singles events
   5. Matchmakers
3. Popular online dating services:
   1. Yahoo! Personals: $13.99-$25.99 per month
   2. Match.com: $24.95-$65.70
   3. eHarmony: $49.95-$249.95
   4. Perfectmatch.com: $59.95 - $249.95
   5. Chemistry.com: Starts at $49.95

Flirting Tips

1. Make eye contact.
2. Initiate conversation.
3. Be yourself.
4. Use humor.
5. Smile.
6. Listen to and show interest in the person you're talking to.
7. Watch for signs and signals.

For more information on flirting and dating with confidence, see Mahalo's How to Flirt.

Online Dating Tips

Meeting men through an online dating service requires creating a profile that will attract the type of men you'd like to meet. In creating your profile, consider the following tips:

1. Be honest.
2. Include a clear, recent photo.
3. Details and specifics are good.
4. Add some personality.
5. Keep a confident, casual tone.
6. Stay safe. Don't reveal personal information.
7. Use correct spelling and grammar.

For more information on online dating, see Mahalo's How to Date Online.